Blasian Children’s Book

Thank you so much for reading and checking on me. I was hard at work on my blasian children’s book. Hopefully the first of many. I see comments still coming through on YouTube about if I will come back. I’d love to, but I don’t know if I am there yet. This is what I was hard at work on while I was away. Now available on Amazon.

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My first book!

I wanted to contribute something to the conversation, especially since I had not been available to share about my life for so long. The children are growing and happy. I am still married (10 years!!) and we have lots to share. This blasian children’s book based on my first 2 children is dear to my heart.

Over the years I spent a lot of time trying to get this project out and also contributing in the expat community in Japan. It has been difficult because we live so far out but I made the effort. Next month will be the Black Women in Japan conference. You can see what is planned for that event on their instagram here.

I’m currently looking to start my next project about my little girl. If you know a water color artist please share this post and contact me about working together.

The artist for this book is still in touch and working on amazing projects. I see us working on some expansion in 2020. Keep up with Drew here. I hope you are all well and thank you for being a key reason in me pushing this project. All children deserve to see themselves represented in literature.

Be well.

To buy my first Blasian Children’s book click here.

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5 Breakfast Cereals for Expats

As the weather gets cooler, I begin my hunt for cold weather staples. Here are some links to 5 breakfast cereals that you can order online with a shipping cost of about ¥406.

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You can purchase Cheerios or Honey Nut Cheerios here. Kids love them and they make good snacks for on the go. On a lazy Saturday morning, there is nothing like shaking a few of these in the bowl with some nice milk of choice.


Some people know this as Cream of Wheat. Even if you have a brand that you love from home, this is excellent. The quality of Bob’s Red Mill does not disappoint. You can purchase Whole Wheat Farina here.

When you first arrive in Japan the last thing on your mind is, “Where can I get a good burger?” The food here is amazing and with so many fresh food options, who would be on the hunt for S.A.D.(Standard American Diet) of crap with a side of crap. Not me, or so I thought. After a few months for some, for me a few years you start to crave a taste of home. I also had no idea that it would be so tough to find out where to get Western Food in Japan.

Heart to Heart Cereal

Organic options are not a problem, I have found an amazing selection! These taste great! They are a little tougher than Cheerios so be sure to soak them a bit before giving them to toddlers or if you have delicate dental work. Purchase Heart to Heart Cereal here.


My favorite and yours! I had to offer a suggestion for oatmeal. Rolled oats are best for health, but through the link you can also search for instant and flavored options. Organic Old Fashioned Rolled Oats can be purchased here.

I use the term Western food very loosely, what I really mean is non-Japanese food. Even though the offerings here are spectacular, you were not raised on it. I grew up eating food from basic American culture as well as food from African-American culture. Being so far away from home there is nothing like mom’s chicken soup when you feel sick. Nothing like some hot biscuits and cider when it starts to get cool outside. We all have our thing.  I did not expect, nor do I wish to see wall to wall breakfast cereals here. Sometimes you just have a hankering for a taste of home. I have found a few resources, so I am sharing the links here.


This last suggestion is a cultural classic. I grew up eating these. My Russian and Italian friends know about these too. We won’t get into a debate over sugar, salt or cheese on these, but you can try them yourself at home. Excellent taste and quality. Purchase Polenta Corn Grits here.

Have a great fall season and be well!

Tara Kamiya

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Happy Anniversary, married 8 years!

wedding in japan

Wedding in Japan

Hard to believe I have been married for 8 years. When we were featured on the show Four Weddings, we had already been married for a year. First we got married at City Hall in NYC and then the next year we decided to have a small eco friendly wedding. A year after that we had another ceremony in Japan.

Doing the reality show was a fun time for me. I learned a lot about my strengths as a personality. You can watch me on Season 2, Episode 1. We are still one of the most popular shows worldwide. When a friend mentioned that she had seen us on TV in Spain I was floored!

The years are flying by. So many changes and so many challenges.

“We are moving to Japan.”

“Honey, that is not detergent.”

“How much debt do you have?”

” I think you should be a stay at home mom.”

“What do you think about life in Cambodia?”

Tara from 4 weddings

Tara from 4 Weddings

Many things come your way when you are a couple. Then you become a family and there are even more decisions to make. We now have three children.

laundry in japan


We don’t really celebrate our anniversary because we have a few to celebrate, but also, we try to celebrate a good life together just by being good to each other. I hope you are having a great week.

Be Well,

Tara Kamiya


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Tanabata Star Festival in Japan

Tanabata Star Festival in Japan

What is Tanabata Star Festival? A couple of years ago when my little one brought home some blank strips of paper I was perplexed. He was not really able to articulate what I was supposed to do with them and I was clueless. Although I was interested in Japan and had studied Japanese before moving to Japan, it is impossible to know or even remember every festival and holiday.


Tanabata Paper Strips

Now I know what to do with those little strips of paper. Tanabata Star Festival  is celebrated on July 7th as well as August 7th in some regions.The origins go back to China and the legend says that two stars/lovers were separated and can meet once a year during the 7th month on the 7th day. Isn’t this the sweetest story?

Make a wish

Make a wish

Children and Adults write their wishes on strips of colored paper and hang them on bamboo branches. Many students will wish for good grades and the intelligence to do well in school. Not sure what I will wish for this year. I thought it would be good if I participate as well. It can be a really fun way of setting goals.

Tanabata Bamboo Tree


Walking around town you can see huge trees of “wishes” hanging in shops and schools. When you see these wish trees all over town you know that summer has begun. It is also a hopeful sign for students that summer vacation will soon start. They are always so colorful and full of hope. It’s lovely to see how the traditions are celebrated here.

Japanese Fireworks

Hanabi (fireworks)

We don’t celebrate many of the festivals and holidays here in Japan. I feel super guilty about that, but the culture shock is never ending. I am finally starting to feel like I live here, but it is a long road yet.

The children help me along a lot because they are growing up here and it’s all they know. I feel so happy when I see the children enjoying everything. Their first hand experiences are mine as well.

This year my son asked me to write a wish on the paper that I am not quite sure what it means. We are at that stage now when he has become my translator and I have become his. It is quite funny. There are so many things that we don’t talk about in our everyday, that you never know what vocabulary is going to pop up and leave us a bit confused.

I hope you all had a good holiday where you are. Thank you for all of your support!

Be Well,

Tara Kamiya





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